Sexual Harassment and Sexual Discrimination when Working Internationally

Since ancient times women have been viewed, inunderstand how to act in accordance with
many cultures, as men's inferiors physically,company policy and governing laws. It is important
morally, and intellectually. Today, in westernto realize, for example, that an executive team
cultures, women enjoy more freedom andbased in the home office in the United States is
equality than ever before in history. Despite theactually legally responsible for the actions of their
gains made by women in recent years, particularlyemployees worldwide, including in subsidiaries in
in the U.S., many women worldwide still find thatforeign countries.
their access to education, employment, healthcareWorking in the international arena can be
and political influence are limited because of theirchallenging. Many foreign countries have no laws
gender. These discrepancies continue to existor regulations concerning sexual harassment, or
because many societies still maintain centuries-oldthey are not enforced, and as a result employees
social and religious laws, customs, and traditionsin many countries do not understand the
that have created barriers to education, jobs, andAmerican viewpoint. As a result, male managers in
healthcare, as well as deprive women of theirthe U.S. who are unfamiliar with more traditional
political and civil rights.Sexual HarassmentSexualsocieties may avoid sending female staff
harassment is usually defined as a form ofmembers to represent their companies to these
discrimination in which sexual advances orcultures, fearing that these businesswomen
requests for sexual favors constitute a conditioncannot be effective in male-oriented societies. This
of a person's employment or advancement in theviewpoint, however, may be keeping these
workplace. It frequently occurs between a maleexecutives from using what is in fact their
and a female, often instigated by a male managerstrongest asset, since women's perceived
or other person in power. While many countriesattributes -- being good listeners, mediators, and
are starting to have laws against suchconsensus builders -- are well-received in
discrimination, it is often reported that the lawsinternational business. Male managers only need to
are not enforced.become knowledgeable about the situation in
Sexual harassment occurs in workplacesother countries and what their responsibilities are
worldwide, including the United States. Laws thatin the event of sexual harassment. They can then
specifically prohibit sexual harassment have beensend their female staff members with
enacted in Argentina, Australia, Canada, France,confidence.U.S. courts (see offer some legal
Germany, Israel, Mexico, the Netherlands, theremedies and suggestions for handling
United Kingdom and the United States, but manydiscrimination and harassment situations: "The
other countries are still in the process of studying(U.S.) courts have established that corporations
the problem. There are two types of sexualthat assign a U.S. citizen to a post in a foreign
harassment defined by U.S. law: quid pro quo andcountry must treat that employee as if he or she
hostile environment. Quid pro quo means that anwere in the U.S., regardless of local customs and
employee is asked to perform a sexual act intraditions." Recent Supreme Court cases suggest
exchange for a job, promotion, or other perk. Aseveral legal/human resource strategies that can
"hostile environment" is described as one whichbe used to prevent gender discrimination. The first
contains situations, acts, or items that can inhibitis: "to educate and prepare employees sent to
the productivity of an employee, such as sexuallywork in different countries abroad. Should a
suggestive language, behavior, or pictures.Somedispute arise, arbitration or mediation is preferred
strategies (as discussed in more detail below) forover litigation. The best overall strategy is to
employees who experience sexual harassmentdevelop and implement a well-conceived company
include confronting the individual by informing himpolicy that ensures gender equality" (Cava, A. &
or her of the intrusive behavior and requestingMayer, D., 1993).Management ResponsibilityThe
that he or she stop it, notifying management or,elimination of sexual harassment starts at home.
should management be the offender, notifying theIf your company doesn't have a company policy
personnel department or the Equal Employmenton discrimination and sexual harassment at home,
Opportunity Commission (EEOC). (In the Unitedthere will be little to back you up if you find
States, call toll free 800-669-EEOC or see to findyourself facing such situations in the international
your local office.) The EEOC will be able to provideenvironment. Top management must therefore
you with written guidelines for determining whattake a proactive role in eradicating it from the
constitutes sexual harassment and how to dealworkplace. There are many good reasons for
with it.Sexual DiscriminationThe Americandoing so. Sexual harassment can reduce
businesswoman may unwittingly and unavoidablyemployee productivity and morale, and
be party to conversations and actions thatconsequently it can have a negative impact on a
discriminate against women. For example, in Asiancompany's bottom line, as well as cost firms a
businesses it is natural to ask a female employeegreat deal in lawsuits.
to serve tea, and a woman may be subjected toIt is the responsibility of the executive staff to
innocent questions about her age, marital status,eliminate sexual harassment. Top management
and whether or not she has children. In Korea andmust instruct its staff that sexual harassment is
Japan, protocol has men entering rooms andillegal and will not be tolerated.. Issuing sexual
elevators ahead of women. In Europe, office talkharassment policies, scheduling open discussions,
tends to be more flirtatious and sexual in nature,expressing disapproval, creating a path for
sprinkled with many off-color jokes and puns.resolution and complaint, and respecting individual
Derogatory statements about women inprivacy should all be part of the top management
Germany are often expressed openly in theplan. A comfortable environment with open,
office, and reference to a woman's physique iscompany-wide communication is key to alleviating
not uncommon in Italy and France. Otherany inhibitions employees may have about
countries still view a woman who is alone as adiscussing their experiences.As a first step, a
prostitute since otherwise her husband, boyfriendcompany needs a visible, comprehensive policy
or family would accompany her. American womenemphasizing the importance of appropriate
often view excessive flattery by Latin Americansbehavior: harassment and social misconduct
as derogatory because U.S. office policies wouldtoward its employees will not be tolerated. This
not tolerate such comments.Some women reportpolicy should also state the ramifications of any
that suggestive sexual comments are sometimesviolations. Hard copies of the company policy
used (consciously or unconsciously) as negotiatingshould be distributed not only internally but also to
tools in an attempt to throw a woman off hercustomers and suppliers. A copy of the policy
guard. Women must be prepared for this andshould be available to all employees and visibly
develop the ability to keep control and not showposted in work and rest areas. The company
anger or other emotion. Some tactics womenshould have training programs for its management
have used successfully to respond to suchstaff and its employees on a regular basis.
situations include: giving a polite verbal reprimandIf you are in management, you can play a key
to remind your counterparts that you arerole. Do not overlook or refuse to acknowledge
conducting a business session; suggesting a breakthat problems can occur in other countries,
while stating the negotiation has obviously gottenbecause this will only help reinforce their
off track; or ending the negotiation in its entiretyacceptance. If one of your traveling staff is
to show absolute intolerance andharassed, it will interfere with the productivity of
disapproval.Gender Issues in EuropeMost womenyour business dealings. Harassment also violates
in Europe are still battling the glass ceiling evenU.S. law. It is frustrating for an individual who has
more than women in the U.S. There are fewerfaced sexual harassment to work with or for
women in upper management and morestaff who do not understand the seriousness of
hierarchical issues with which to grapple.the offense, or travel with a manager who does
Furthermore, European women are still expectednot speak or act on behalf of employees.Individual
to handle all responsibilities relating to home andResponsibilityPrepare yourself for the possibility of
family. This interferes with their ability to holdencountering sexual harassment when you travel
down a job unless they are wealthy enough toabroad. When you are visiting countries that are
have hired help at home. Shopping hours are stillmale-dominated and still have little awareness of
not convenient for working women and day carewomen's rights, your actions may actually have a
is often not available. Younger women do notgreater impact on foreign men than written
have the role models of older women in thepolicies. In these situations, men won't expect
business world, so they must often work harderwomen to assert themselves, and if you strongly
to establish credibility and to break into the uppervoice your disapproval of inappropriate behavior,
ranks of business. Derogatory comments aboutthese men will often back down. Also, most
women appear to be more accepted by thebusinessmen would not want to lose a business
public. For example, in England the derogatorydeal by offending someone.Most women report
terms "cow" and "bird" are widely used, even onthat while their business days go smoothly, the
TV, and in films, to refer to women. In Franceafter-hours socializing that occurs in some
and Italy it is not unusual for males to touchcountries can become a challenge. It is still
women inappropriately.Gender Issues in AsiaAsiancommon, for example, for Asian men to go out
culture has traditionally placed more value on maledrinking after work. While drinking, they feel more
offspring and on the male roles of ruler,comfortable about voicing their inner feelings. If
protector, cultivator, and breadwinner. The male isyou are the lone woman in your group, you may
out in the world, while the female remains atbecome the target for questions that would not
home to manage the household and raise thebe asked during working hours. In Asia, drinking
children. Asian males have consequently been in aexcuses what Americans may consider appallingly
dominant position over Asian women and haveinappropriate behavior. While the American may
largely controlled their means ofremain upset if he or she feels anything untoward
livelihood.Centuries ago male philosophers, China'shas occurred during an evening, the incident is
elite, developed precepts of behavior -- notablygenerally ignored by the Asian participants the
passivity and obedience -- that women werenext day as they carry on with business as usual.
expected, or forced, to follow. Women wereIn Latin America, women are often the targets of
subordinated to their fathers, brothers, husbands,flattering comments about their appearance by
and even sons. Historically, marriages in Asia wereLatin American men, sometimes to the point that
arranged not for love, but for family connections.it feels intrusive to the women.Should you be
The bride usually lived under the domination of thesubjected to what you feel is sexual harassment,
husband's mother and frequently facedremain calm and professional. This attitude will
competition from secondary wives andhave much more impact than if you become
concubines. Her husband was allowed to repudiateupset or angry. In many cases men may have
his wife, especially if she did not produce a malebeen trying to incite you or test your resilience. In
heir. If the husband died, the wife could not easilymost cases you can either respond with a calm
remarry. She had no economic independence, wasstatement of disapproval, or you can show your
frequently illiterate, and had no property rights.disapproval by remaining silent. If you are in a
Infanticide limited the number of femalesituation that has become particularly unpleasant,
children.Today, Asian countries continue to beyou can always leave.If you are traveling
patriarchal societies with strong traditions. When aoverseas on business and have been accosted,
woman marries, she generally joins her husband'syou are still protected as an employee of an U.S.
family, and her ties with her own family weaken.firm, and should take action in accordance with
The couple either lives with the husband's familyyour firm's sexual harassment policy. It is always
or, as is occurring more frequently, on its own. Ifbest to report the incident rather than being
there is a divorce, the father often gets custodypassive and keeping it to yourself. This way, if
of the children. Divorce is considered shameful andthe perpetrator is an employee of your firm, he
is rarely discussed. Divorce rates, which used tocan be corrected or reprimanded, and if he is
be very low in East Asia, are growing however,employed by another firm, at least your
as women become more economicallyexecutives will be aware of the issue when
independent.There is an old Chinese saying:deciding whether to enter further business
"Women are the moon reflecting the sunlight,"dealings with that company.Be Prepared- If you
meaning women reflect the glow of men. Young,are single, avoid talking about your personal
educated East Asian women increasingly rejectlifestyle or dating, as these subjects can lead to
this old saying. They emphasize their individuality,uncomfortable conversations. In particular, do not
independence, personal responsibility, hard work,discuss your marital situation if you are divorced
and careers, even as they try to maintain theiror living with someone.- If you feel that a
femininity. Yet the few recent studies of Asianconversation is inappropriate, don't respond. Just
women indicate that many still feel inferior to menchange the subject.- Avoid situations where any
and worry about managing a career and a family.unwanted intimacy may be initiated, such as
Job discrimination is still practiced in Asia. "Familydinners for two.- Be careful that your actions
connections" are very important in obtainingcannot be interpreted as being either aggressive
desirable jobs. Stereotyping women as theor flirtatious.- If your international hosts insist on
weaker, less capable sex still prevails.Genderopening doors for you or holding your chair at the
Issues in Latin AmericaThe concept ofdining table, graciously allow them do so.
"machismo" is important in Mexico and other LatinRemember they are trying to respond
American countries, although Americanappropriately when working with women.- Avoid
businesswomen will encounter more machoeating or drinking alone in strange restaurants,
attitudes in Mexico than in any other a part ofsince you may be viewed as a pick-up target.
Latin America. The word "macho" does not carryAsk your hotel concierge for restaurant
a negative connotation in Mexico, as it does in therecommendations.Responding to Uncomfortable
U.S. For a Mexican, the word "macho" impliesQuestionsWhen you are asked a question you
strength, valor, self-confidence and masculinity,consider uncomfortable or inappropriate, use
which are all considered positive qualities. There isshort, standard answers to discourage further
also an underlying assumption in the culture thatquestioning. For example, many women are asked
men are supposed to be stronger, braver, wisertheir marital status, their age, and, if married,
and more sexually knowledgeable than women.about dual careers. While these questions may be
Displays of machismo include: showing courage inunusual, they are often more commonly asked in
a bullring, risk-taking, taking part in bar roomforeign countries as a form of interest about you,
confrontations, and displaying sexual prowess bya woman who may be very different than
bragging about sexual conquests or by having awomen in their own country. You can answer
large family. To be macho also requires thethese in a polite manner while suggesting that the
repudiation of all characteristics consideredquestions are not appropriate by giving answers
feminine, such as unselfishness, kindness,such as "My career keeps me very busy," or "I
frankness and truthfulness.am younger than I look." Ignoring the question and
The proof of a man's maleness in this culture ischanging the subject is a simple way of
his ability to completely dominate his wife and hisredirecting the conversation. If the questions are
children and to have sexual relations with anymore direct and aggressive and sexual in nature,
woman he desires. A double moral standard existsbe assertive and answer, "This is not an
between the fidelity expectations placed uponappropriate question to ask," or, if the questioner
males and females in Mexico and Latin America. Acontinues to be uncooperative, try to embarrass
woman's primary obligation is to make a homehim by telling another group member about your
and procreate; she is dedicated to a life of servicediscomfort. Silence can also be very
and no infidelity on her part is tolerated. However,effective.Strategies for responding to
men who maintain mistresses are within their legaluncomfortable questions also include:- You may be
rights as long as they are discreet about theirasked seemingly intrusive questions about your
affairs. A man can frequently divorce his wife ifmarital status and whether or not you have
she commits adultery, but the wife can onlychildren. Prepare some stock answers or change
divorce her husband if the act took place in theirthe topic of conversation to one that is more
home.Macho men will often express an air ofcomfortable for you.- You might be invited to a
superiority when it comes to dealing withbar after dinner. Whether or not you want to
American women in business. They may beattend is your choice. It's not impolite to say no,
overly polite and attentive to a woman, but in agiving jet lag or business commitments such as
patronizing way. Machismo may be expressed infaxes, e-mails, or phone calls as an excuse.- If
terms of canceled, forgotten, or ignoredyour host exhibits inappropriate behavior, inform
meetings, and other frustrations and delays.him that you are uncomfortable and that you
Businesswomen, especially when traveling alone,want him to stop.- f you are traveling
should expect a high likelihood of unwelcomewith a team, have other team members join you
sexual advances. Examples of this include: overlyin expressing dissatisfaction with the situation. This
long eye contact, the pressing of legs under thewill usually end the unwanted behavior, since to
table, and an overemphasis on how appealing acontinue it will cause bad feelings.- If you are in a
woman looks. Most businesswomen advise againstsocial setting that is becoming uncomfortable,
entertaining a man alone. Instead, they suggestinform your host that you are uncomfortable and
that a group be arranged. They also emphasizewould like to leave. Politely request that he call
that a woman should establish herself as ayou a taxi. If he does not cooperate, ask the
businesswoman even at her hotel, and dressestablishment's staff to call one for you.- If no
conservatively in business suits.Strategies foraction is taken, get ready to leave and state the
CopingIt is important for you, your team, andreasons you are leaving. There is no reason to
your managers to understand the strategies youstay in a situation that is uncomfortable for you.-
should pursue if you find yourself in aAn employee who desires to leave while his or
compromising situation. Managers should beher colleagues desire to stay should do so and not
well-versed on their responsibilities in cases wherefeel badly about "breaking up the fun.
women have been harassed, and they should