Thai Meets West - Land Of Smiles

eople of Thailand are an interesting group. Theywhich there is from time to time, they are given
hugely influenced by Chinese culture, being locateda knowing glare. The loud will know immediately
just to the south of China, so I am sure thatthey are being impolite but more often than not
some of the things I am going to describe arethe loud person will not be Thai. This politeness
part of the greater “eastern”even extends to their children of all ages. While
culture as well as the Thai culture. However, Thaisthere is a general grumbling about the teenage
have developed a unique blended culture of theirThai, I believe this a universal teenage thing and
own. You might wonder how this might affectthe teenager soon grow out of the rebellious
your stay here in Thailand. If you are not innon-politeness. Thai children are very well behaved
Thailand more than a few days or a week youand I wish I could determine what methods the
may not even notice, especially if you confineThais employ to impart the politeness on to their
your visit to the well known tourist areas wherechildren because I am sure the rest of the world
Thai Culture is a bit diluted by the visitingwould like to know.
foreigners. However, I have been living among theTheir undeniable love and respect for their King
Thai people and I find their culture quite endearing.and country seems ubiquitous, and probably is.
Thai culture holds being polite above all else.They show it every day at 8 am and again at 6
Politeness is built into their very language. Not onlypm by standing reverently as their national
do they have words that they use to be politeanthem is played throughout public areas in
but they have a word, untranslatable into theThailand. I remember being in a mall, walking
English language, only used to be polite, and it iswhere I could see a good portion of the mall,
used frequently as they speak. This politenesswhen I realized I was the only one who WAS
transcends every part of their lives. You willwalking. The Anthem was playing, and every in
notice that a car horn is only used tothe mall has stopped where they were walking
“politely” tell other drivers they areand standing at attention. Prior to every movie
there and not to run into them. When at the bankplayed in a theater a short tribute to their King is
or Movie Theater or grocery store the Thaiplayed, everyone stands as a sign of respect. It is
people seem to automatically fall into an organizedquite refreshing to be in a country where
line, they call queues, categorized by your need. Ineveryone has such a huge respect for their
the park most everyone runs in the samecountry leader.
direction around the park (which is oddly counterOlder Thais, and I understand older people in the
clockwise). They do this because there areeast, are fortunate in that they are taken care of
arrows pointing the proper direction of travel.by their children when they too old to take care
Thailand is the “Land of Smiles”, Iof themselves. This gives the elder generation a
believe because they are taught that smiling is ansense of security sorely lacking in the east and
important part of being polite.allows them to be more positive about their
Also, Thai people are quiet, politely not disturbingwaning years.
people around them and if there is a loud person,