A Nostalgic Look at Mother England

Mother Englandrolling like a sideways log down a certain slope, or
There's no place like home...just sitting in the long grass peppered with wild
flowers. From up there the villages, cars and
I thank Wales daily for her hospitality. Sheanimals looked like the wooden toys I loved to
provides a kind of safe comfort, like that of anplay with. You could clearly hear lambs calling each
over-stuffed chintz armchair in the parlour of another in a field two miles away.
affectionate great-auntie; the sort of great-auntieMy teens were spent in North Yorkshire. Outings
who pinches your cheeks and plies you with cake.were rare; we owned a shop, which opened
However, despite England's dubious history,seven days a week. A day trip was usually to the
England is my mother and therefore has myfar north, where spreads a huge handspun cloak
heart.of heathered moorland. Well-timed trips afforded
I once heard that one's own culture becomesgolden vales of happily nodding daffodils, or dense
stronger when one is immersed in another culture,groves carpeted with a hovering mist of bluebells.
perhaps to defend and preserve it? All my familyMy favourite haunts were the little villages where
were born in England, but I spent my earlysheep had a free rein and nibbled the grass as
childhood with them in the USA. I had a veryshort as the pile of velvet.
happy time there and could write volumes on itsMy brother lives in a small market town in middle
beauty, but I always kept England on the highestEngland. The public phone boxes are still painted
pedestal. We would very occasionally make a longred, and the duck-pond is still the main focal point
drive to an English shop selling Weetabix, realin all the surrounding villages. There is nowhere as
marmalade, authentic Marmite and proper tea. Itstereotypically English in my experience. Many of
was like a sacred pilgrimage.the houses around there are hundreds and
My family is from Sussex (a county on the southhundreds of years old, and still have a heavy
coast), and we used to go back to visit myfringe of thatch for a roof. They seem to be
grandparents every now and then. I rememberslumbering under big, wide-brimmed straw hats.
the crisp white tablecloth, the strict tableThe gardens really are full of holly-hocks and
manners, and the sugar bowl sporting a portraitfox-gloves, and the doors really are framed by
of the Queen and silver sugar tongs. I waswild roses. The men still wear white to play
always asking why strange things existed such ascricket, and are often seen playing on the green
the saucer under the teacup, or the laceover-looked by a long-spired stone church. The
antimacassar on the back of the chair. In truth Imost important thing as far as I'm concerned is
found the formality refreshingly intimidating nextthe teashop. My favourite one in the town is run
to the playful freedom of America. When weby a man with the obsequious nature of a royal
moved back though, I felt a school tie at the agebutler. He makes all the cakes himself and displays
of seven was going a bit far. Apart from that, tothem on paper doilies under glass bells. If you do
me England was heaven.visit, I have found that hot chocolate requires the
Many an afternoon did we spend combing thelongest wait as the chocolate is carefully melted
rock-pools of Brighton for sea life. We could beand blended with the milk without the use of a
seen clambering or crouching in our wellingtons formicrowave oven.
hours, with expressions ranging from delightedI must say though that the best place in the
wonder to joyful disgust. Then there was theworld is London, without a doubt. Perhaps it is the
Royal Pavillion and its mad mock Indian domesonly place a vagabond such as myself can really
and minarets. My favourite place was a particularfeel at home. All that which is English (and all that
point on the South Downs (a huge line of naturalever was) is encapsulated in its realm, but with a
chalk hills covered in grass). I was in my elementthousand other cultures smoothly woven into it.